What if you could Thrive & Transform through a Major Life Transition With Less Confusion or Overwhelm?
Or, let me rephrase that …
What if, in 6 months, you could feel the freedom and flow that results from releasing the “old self”, others expectations and showing up authentically by making some bold changes in your life?
A life that allows you to …
• Feel excited about the thought of new opportunities and experiences • Tap into your true potential; where you’re inspired to take action & make it happen • Be aligned with your purpose and souls’ call and finally have meaning in life • Improve your career, personal relationships and zest for life • Feel free, liberated, fulfilled and fully on fire!
Because you believe that life is meant to be easier than this and you truly deserve to be your best self. If you want to transform and thrive through transition… then keep reading!
HERE'S THE PROBLEM IN THE MIDDLE ...
You know that in order to create a life of freedom, peace and authenticity, you need to clear the confusion, ease the fear and embrace some changes in your current life… However, you’re constantly second guessing yourself and asking questions like:
Can I make this change happen? It feels SO big!
You're doubting whether you'll be able to survive this massive change and what is about to come.
How do I deal with all the guilt & fear?
You're fearing facing this all alone - all the negative emotions ahead feel too much to handle on your own.
What if I'm worse off on the other side of change?
You're fearing that people will think you're crazy, desert you and that you'll be worse off than where you are now.
CAN YOU IMAGINE?
Imagine having a more free, empowered and authentic life without the guilt, overwhelm and fear that you may have picked on your way through major life changes. What would happen if you were:
• Ready to take risks, ready to experience new places, people and things? • Ready to shed all that is not truly you? • Ready to ditch living a life that is inauthentic?
• Feeling more expansive and were finally ready let go of the job, relationship or place that’s bogging you down?
•Clear and confident in your choices - not letting everyone else’s opinions confuse you or make you think of what you ‘should’ be doing?
If you identify with any of the above and want to learn how to overcome fear and start removing key elements of your life that are no longer serving you, I have something for you…
Transform and Thrive through Transition 1:1 Monthly Coaching
A monthly 1:1 coaching package to support you through major transitions in your life. Whether you are contemplating change, or been thrown into the middle of it.
Because there is no one-size-fits-all in coaching, I use 4 pillars of change to guide our work together. This is not a step-by-step program because change is unpredictable & what're you are going through is unique to you.
After working together, you'll become more equipped for surviving & thriving this transition, plus all future changes in your life. (because change is the only constant)
READ WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY
"I was glad to meet Melissa. Melissa showed me how to find my inner voice, to tackle the problems that concern me. The coaching process was a great inspiration for self-knowledge and personal development. Melissa is an excellent personal coach, approachable, understanding, and really organized. It is very useful for any person who is looking for a safe “mind-place” to sort out their stuckness, I left every session with a relief. Strongly recommended."
"Melissa helped me tremendously! The sessions showed me so much of myself and I couldn't have done it alone. Thank you thank you thank you! 100% would recommend!"
Carla van Rensburg
"My time with Melissa was both enjoyable and beneficial. She is a caring professional that listens with compassion. She guided me into understanding myself better and helped me see things from a different perspective. All in all, our sessions made me feel heard & connected, which is unusual in these unconnected times. I left each session with clarity and peace of mind."
HERE'S HOW IT ALL BREAKS DOWN WHEN WE WORK TOGETHER
Gain clarity, overcome doubt, fear, resistance & loss.
Change is the only constant in life, and we’re usually rarely ready for it. And whether it’s a relationship ending, a career path coming to a close, or moving away from your home - we usually can’t see how we will get through it. You are on the doorstep of change - whether you know it or sense it.
I help you prepare for change by evaluating life now and what needs to change to help you make sense of NOW & what's about to change. I'll help you gain acceptance of what is changing so we can look forward, not back.
Let go of past resentments, beliefs, identities & expectations to pave way for the new.
Moving through change effectively means evaluating and learning from the experience - so that we don’t make the same mistakes again. This phase is all about “purging” all the stuff that's not working for you! It’s a very emotionally healing time & can be a time of intense shedding and renewal.
I help you purge during change by eliminating everything that is no longer serving you, keeping you stuck & feeling lost. I help you with baby steps to taking more courageous action as well as handling emotions and disruption.
Become energised by designing a future you are excited about!
You’re past the real”low point” of the change cycle & you’re ready to start looking forward. You have more clarity, peace and inner trust. You’re ready to start putting your feelers out into the world and take “one step at a time” to move your life away from what was is gone to what is available to you.
I help you plan for after change by evaluating your next move in an authentic way. Get excited about life, by visualising & planning to create the “after”. I help you with accountability on actions & habits to find more joy.
Grow into a life with more authenticity, purpose, freedom & rock solid confidence
By this stage, you are on fire! You’ve gone through the lowest lows, you’ve gone deep within and you’re feeling more YOU than ever before. You are ready to reach your next level and live life as your highest self. You can see yourself in your future & are moving forward everyday to make it a reality.
I help you propel yourself in life after change by stepping into your highest self, celebrating your achievements & championing your successes.
You know that this point in your life (and what comes next) has the power to lead you to new mental, physical and emotional spaces. You’re thoughts, feelings and actions will never be the same.
WHAT MAKES THIS PROGRAM DIFFERENT?
Apart from the ordinary general life coaching, or transition coaching programs out there … This package is the first of it’s kind that combines transformational and transition coaching so that you can explore major transitions that you want to make in your life AND get the coaching and support to move through them. It’s for women that require both transformation and transition coaching methodologies in one place.
Are you ready to have more freedom, purpose and peace in life as you move through this turning point in your life?
When you sign up for initial 3-Session coaching, you’ll get: • 3x 60-Minute Coaching Sessions per month (3 weeks on, 1 week off) • Unlimited in-between sessions support via Marco Polo • Personalised Resources throughout the coaching journey
Thereafter, on a month-to-month basis you'll get: • 3x 60-Minute Coaching Sessions per month (3 weeks on, 1 week off • Unlimited in-between sessions support via Marco Polo • Personalised Resources throughout the coaching journey
Private 1:1 coaching requires an initial 3-session commitment to help you transition and thrive through change by letting go of the past & moving into the future. Thereafter, month to month coaching is applicable with the option to cancel with 14 days notice.
WORKING TOGETHER IS EASY.
Take the first step is to book a non-sales clarity calland let's see if we're a good fit.
Sales calls are the worst, nobody feels comfortable. So we'll just chat about what you need & what I do, to determine if we're a match.
Next we'll clarify your need, current situation and if this program, and me as your coach - will be the right fit for you at this life-changing time.
Together we'll work in helping you move step by step through change with ease and grace - knowing I am there to support you in your journey.
NICE TO MEET YOU - I'M MEL
I’m Mel and I want to support you in making courageous decisions in your life so that you can live more authentically, connect with your true self and become all that you are meant to.
After experiencing major transitions in my life, I’ve experienced the emotions, disruption and core shifts that come with pursuing a life of authenticity & freedom. Having walked the road, I’m dedicated to helping and supporting you build a life you love while respecting your values, energy and emotions.
After our time together, you’ll walk away with: - Removed the limiting blocks that are keeping you stuck in a life that feels unfulfilling and soul-sucking. - You’ve overcome uncertainty and are ready to finally go after what you want - You’ve dealt with the ‘negative’ feelings that may arise unexpectedly due to this transition - You’re equipped to handle stress with more awareness and ease - You’re building a life that feels effortless & is aligned with your soul - A mindset prepared for even more growth and personal expansion
Major transitions that I coach my clients through: > Getting Married > Emigrating > Divorce > Mid-Life Career Shift
Unsure if I’m the right coach for you? Totally understandable! Why not book a non-sales call and let’s get to know each other - because the life you want is so much closer than it feels!
I work mainly with women in their 30's and 40's who are experiencing shifts and changes in their lives. They're ready and committed to taking responsibility and action to move forward in their lives. My clients are situated mostly in Europe, Australia, UK, USA and South Africa.
I am certified as a COR.E Transitions specialist, meaning that I have an educational background in transition/change and the necessary skills to support you through yours. I also have first hand experience facing many transitions myself such as marriage, divorce & emigration. Read more of my story here, or let's have a coffee and connect there.
This package is right for you if you are committed to working through your life changes in a conscious way. Coaching is a powerful way to move forward in life and open yourself up to new possibilities. By having a clarity call together, we can determine if you'd benefit from 1:1 coaching. You can read more about coaching & the benefits thereof on my blog.
If you are committed to the process, ready to invest in yourself and willing to take action - there is no reason you will be the same or worse after working together. You are responsible for your results throughout our work together.
This is for you if:
> You are at a turning point in your life - and feel like you need a major life change and you’re craving something different. You can't go on with things as is.
> You’re going through a major transition in your life, whether you predicted it or not and are completely overwhelmed and shocked and want to work with a coach that can support you through creating a vision for yourself, and partner with you to make it happen.
> You are ready for change and want to invest in yourself and the resources you need to get through it in one piece. Your soul is calling you to more than what you are and the life you currently lead.
> You cannot imagine staying stuck and ignoring you soul's calling - forever wondering what would have happened if you answered it’s call. You are committed, coachable, honest & open-minded.
This is NOT for you if:
> Looking for a quick fix. Major life change takes time, effort and guts. Rather check out Stuck to Clarity for some quick wins.
> You are not committed to working through the emotions that can come as a result of major life transitions.
> You are not a genuine, nice person. If there is no mutual respect between us and we don’t click, I’ll ask you to leave.
> Not willing to take responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings and actions.